Ma!gic of Making Up

Posted: March 20th., 2011. Title 'The Magic of Making Up' , Category, self help - relationships.

By Randy (Randman011) Yancey !
Hi,

Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call. Cool huh?...I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together. So I am going to answer...

"How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
BUT... *** WARNING! *** THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP .

In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy. If you use this technique alone, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

*** What NOT to Say! ***

Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works. and worse... Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position. These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I
have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY- "Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? So, I won't go on and on...
*** How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage***

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are *Curiosity & *Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic' So....Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME. In a friendly tone:"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person." Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. Now...Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible. But more importantly...

**** 2nd WARNING! ****

Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP System BEFORE you call.

THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP !
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly. Okay? What I am saying is...What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Make sense?
Have a PLAN!==><< THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP !

Cheering For You, Randman011
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